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Home Lifestyle Dear Fellow Hustlers: It’s Okay to Take a Break

Dear Fellow Hustlers: It’s Okay to Take a Break

Posted:12/5/17
Updated:8/17/19

While I write this with my fellow entrepreneurs, side-hustlers, business people in mind, I encourage you all to give yourself permission to take a break. Take a break from the self-imposed craziness and just be. Live, breathe, relax, take it all in as another year comes to an end. 

this recipe
(obsessed with my new beddin: from west elm)

 

I’m sitting in my bed as I write this, simultaneously practicing gratitude, taking breaks from typing to sip my peppermint mocha coffee.

Last week I was in Costa Rica at a wellness & yoga retreat. I worked like a crazy person the week of Thanksgiving before jetting off in hopes to find some calm and relaxation before the holidays.

Even while I was in Costa Rica I had planned to work the weekend I got back home. I didn’t have time to plan much of this weeks content so I intended to get a couple of recipes photographed and blog posts written so I would “stay on track”. The schedule I make for myself where I do my best to hold myself accountable.

Fast forward to arriving back home last Friday at 3:30am after a delayed flight, and my plans for working during the weekend fell by the wayside.

But it wasn’t that I didn’t have the energy to work, it was more so I realized I didn’t necessarily have to work. I didn’t have to stress myself out on the weekend trying to get last-minute posts together. I also didn’t want to compromise on the quality of the recipe and work itself, just to stick with my self-imposed schedule.

I think back to this time last year and Drew mentioned I didn’t even go get a tree with him because I was too busy working.

“Too busy working.”

Granted I do remember being extremely busy and it was easier for him to get one on his way home from work, but still. 

I don’t want a repeat from last season. The stress, the long days, weeks…

I did my best to practice staying present while in Costa Rica and I think it carried over into the weekend, which allowed me to give myself permission to take a break. As soon as I said to myself,

“You really don’t have to work this weekend, you know… The internet and everything else will be there come Monday. Take this weekend to get settled back home. Get your Christmas tree, do holiday things. Enjoy time with loved ones this weekend. Oh, and maybe clean the house…”

And just like that I felt like a normal person again… A normal person doing normal weekend things like Monday-Friday 9-5ers do.

I got so used to working all of the time that I kind of felt like I wasn’t sure I knew what to do. But just like riding a bike it came back to me… and then I proceeded to clean out the fridge because Lawd knows how long it’s been since I wiped down the shelves and all that. I also cleaned the living room, putting away all of my food props on their shelves in the basement. Up until that point that were so lovingly kept in a laundry basket under the bar. 

It’s Okay to Take a Break

Dear Fellow Hustlers: It's Okay to Take a Break... "You really don't have to work this weekend, you know... The internet and everything else will be there come Monday. Take this weekend to get settled back home. Get your Christmas tree, do holiday things. Enjoy time with loved ones this weekend. Oh, and maybe clean the house..."

 

So what I am saying (to my fellow entrepreneurs, side-hustlers, solo-business people)  is that you can take a break. It’s OKAY to take a break from your never-ending to-do list. The breaks help us come back in full-out “let’s kick some ass” mode, which in turn can only help your business moving forward. Also, no need to compare your breaks to anyone else’s breaks. As entrepreneurs, our day-to-day looks different for everyone. So don’t let what others are doing make you second-guess yourself.

And the breaks help us stay creative. Which if you’re in a creative job like me, is very very important! I can’t do my best work when I’m feeling bogged down and I’m betting you’re the same way.

SO let’s give each other permission to take a break every so often, alright?

You don’t want to get so busy that you forget what it’s like to be living.

 

 

About Ashley

"Ashley Walterhouse is the founder of Fit Mitten Kitchen, based in the Greater Lansing Area of Michigan, AKA “the Mitten.” Ashley grew up as a picky eater but later discovered that eating healthy was actually easy and fun. She started FMK in 2015 as a way to share her newfound love of developing healthier recipes for all to enjoy."

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  1. Brie @ Lean, Clean, & Brie says

    12/5/2017 at 6:44 am

    Love, love, love this post. Such a perfect reminder this time of the year! <3

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  2. Chelsea @ Healthy Fabulous Life says

    12/5/2017 at 9:56 am

    Love this! So important to remember. Thank you!!

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  3. Pal says

    12/5/2017 at 2:03 pm

    HI BUD, LOVE YOU. See you in 2+ weeks. XXXXX

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  4. Natasha @ Salt & Lavender says

    12/5/2017 at 4:15 pm

    Yeah… I can relate. I’m often on the edge of burnout myself. I work full-time and put even more hours into my food blog. Not quite making enough money yet to quit, so I’ve put massive pressure on myself. Not fun. I’ve actually come to some similar conclusions myself lately. I have to keep hustling, but stopping and smelling the proverbial roses is important for my sanity and physical well being!

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  5. Leona Konkel says

    12/5/2017 at 9:09 pm

    This is such a good reminder, at just the right time. I think most of us try to overextend ourselves at the holidays.

    Reply
  6. Adrea says

    12/6/2017 at 10:44 am

    Totally agree! Even though entrepreneurs tend to love their work more than a normal 9-5, you still want to work work to live, not live to work!

    Reply
  7. Jode says

    12/6/2017 at 10:55 pm

    Nice, Ash! Love you ?

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    • Ashley says

      12/7/2017 at 10:03 am

      Thanks Jode! <3 Love ya too

      Reply
  8. Kelly says

    12/7/2017 at 8:14 pm

    I’ve been super stressed lately and need to hear this. Everything will be there if I take a day or two off. And I need it for my sanity. Thanks for keeping it real like always!

    Reply

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